Peace. Power. Purpose.

A brotherhood inviting men from getting along & surviving by themselves, to thriving in brotherhood.

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Fostering authentic connections and personal growth among men.

The Gathering of Men is a community aimed at providing the right space and people for men to thrive in brotherhood & move away from doing everything by themselves.

This may be lifting weights, expressing emotions, building businesses, breaking bread & off-line activities.

We do this through our community memberships & events & courses aimed at sustainably & positively changing the lives of men.

We're not here to play the guru, we're here to walk the path together, in our own way. But to support each other on the journey, that we can walk together. Our focus is not to create dependency, but to foster interdependency.

So that, it is felt in society what the impact is of bringing men in brotherhood & focus on what's really important. To be as much of us as we can while we do good.

We invite everyone willing to step up. We invite you back to the playground, the arena & the feast. Together.

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What makes us different

Not Your Guru

No fancy characters, just real men that you can identify with.

We're here on the same journey,

but have developed a way to guide men on their journey.

More than 'Men's Work'

We want you to become emotionally adequate for yourself, but also to do well in life and the material world.

Where Men's Work stops, to BBQ's & meditation, to building businesses.

English Friendly

We are Dutch rooted, but always aimed at providing a space for the men who come from abroad and seek brotherhood too.

Speaking Dutch is always a given, English we speak for those needed.

Your opportunity to step up.

Join us at one of our upcoming events.

From community events with BBQ and games, to 4 days of experiencing your potential. Facilitator's trainings & longer journeys with a fixed group. To slowly working on a lifestyle community.

There's something here for all.

We share the path, let’s walk together.

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Mental Health Week

Welcome brother. We're opening the doors in Amsterdam for Mental Health Week — Join us for honest conversations in circles, empowering physical sessions by the fire, and relaxing guided meditations. Real moments with real people. Come move, share and grow alongside your brothers.

2nd Open Gathering - Amsterdam

Regular Gatherings

Friday, May 30, 2025

19:00 - 21:30

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Mental health week kick off Potluck dinner

Community Events

Saturday, May 31, 2025

18:30 - 21:00

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Assessment

Know Thyself - The Path to a fulfilled life - Identify your Strengths & Weaknesses & put them to use.

Men who feel they're not achieving their fullest potential & fulfilment is often because there's a lack of self-knowledge & the tools on how to work with it.

We've developed an assessment that helps you gaining a greater understanding of who you are. If you know this, you know what you can work with. Then the path to purpose follows & will give you direction in life.

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TESTIMONIALS

Hear from those that came before you

“The Gathering gives me a sense of purpose, a place I can be, share, feel, listen, learn, get inspired and a place to sharpen the tools to do the work”
- Nigel
“Even though we have a lot on our plates and a mouth full of unanswered questions, when we gather it’s so much easier to digest”
- Guillermo
“Has given me a feeling of belonging to something greater than myself and the knowledge that there are healthy strong masculine men out there to learn from ❤️ so grateful for this brotherhood!”
- Tim