The world is in great turmoil, changing rapidly and this change demands for men to rise up in a powerful and new way.

It’s time for a new narrative and culture of masculinity – one of growth, healing, empowerment and brotherhood.

A community of men, rising up to become better men everyday, have risen to the occasion to bring this new narrative to life.
This community is The Gathering of Men.

We are focused on creating an environment that is both welcoming and supportive, where men can feel safe to be their true selves and grow together.

Through courses, gatherings, and events, we aim to provide men with the opportunity to connect, share experiences, and build strong bonds of brotherhood. The focus of this community is on personal growth and the empowerment of men to create a better world for themselves and their communities.

We’re not just an organization, therapy class, or a company, but a community and a movement that has the potential to positively shape the way men show up for themselves, others, and the world around them.

“Showing up for yourself so we can give of what we have become”


Meet the team

Guillermo Armand Blinker
Legendary Facilitator/Shaman/Artist

Our dear brother Guillermo, Mister Otion.

The embodiment of flow, both in music as well as in motion. Sometimes silently streaming like a creek, and other times he’ll surge like a storm.

Layers and layers of humanity, deeply packed into one beautiful being. Our sage of sincerity, speaking truth into action and power. Wise beyond his years but also playfully wicked like a kid.

Count on this beautiful brother to hold you up as you break, or break you open when you can no longer hold it up.

The space he holds will hold you safe and sacred so you can heal into wholeness.

Thijs Hasselhof
The master brain

Thijs is hugely devoted to whatever he sets his mind to, puts his heart and soul in everything he feels to create and, he allows his vulnerability to share his inner true feelings. To me, he is the anti-stereotypical man that has the looks, is physically built strong, and has a charming personality. However, his inner being is equally beautiful. Never judge a book by its cover.

Thijs inspires other men to be real, raw, and revolutionary to this era of men.

Oscar Andoni Alonso Delgado

Meet Oscar. The big man.

The initiator of TGOM and the man that has brought this initiative to life.

Living with pure intentions and in service of his fellow brothers and sisters, he creates the space where people can grow, evolve and connect with their inner authentic selves. A man with a big and open heart sharing his wisdom, a creative mind that never stops thinking about new ideas and concepts, a man living his purpose. He knows how to bring people together, as a natural-born connector! Future dreams: creating a retreat resort in Nepal and building his own peanut butter factory.

Stefan Schotsborg
The creative alchemist and dot connector.

His unique combination of wisdom and wit, serious insight and silly antics make him a beloved leader in the community.
Stefan is driven by a deep passion for creating a better world, and he brings this energy to every project he’s involved with.
With his deep understanding of people and his ability to connect all the dots, Stefan has become a champion of the idea that a more beautiful world is possible, and he inspires those around him to join in this quest.

Whether you are looking for guidance, inspiration, or just a good laugh, Stefan is always ready to lend a hand, or offer a joke, and help you find your place in this amazing community.